Years after their relationship ended, rumors are swirling that Taylor Swift lost her virginity to ex Jake Gyllenhaal. Why this is coming out three years later we’re not really sure, but let’s dig a little deeper into this rumor, shall we?

Taylor has become infamous for her string of famous exes, but her relationship with Jake seemed to have left a bruise on her heart, especially since there are many songs off Red that are believed to be about him. Now, it all makes sense since Radar Online reports that while Taylor was “saving herself for marriage,” Jake convinced her to go all the way three months into their relationship. “She thought she was going to marry Jake, that’s how in love she was with him,” a source told Radar.

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Taylor may have been completely head over heels for Jake, it didn’t take long for her heart to be broken by him when he was a no show at her 21st birthday party. “The day before – all was set – he was coming, no issues. But the day of, she doesn’t hear from him at all. No texts, no calls,” the source revealed. “Taylor thought maybe he was planning some sort of surprise. Nope. He didn’t show up and she locked herself in the bathroom and cried the entire night.” Aw! Poor Taylor!

So what does Taylor Swift do when the man she loves completely ditches her birthday party? Write a song about it, duh! “The song that specifically references this ‘event’ is ‘The Moment I Knew.’ The lyrics are all about her birthday party and Jake not showing up,” the source said.

The lyrics to “The Moment I Knew” go a little bit like this: “You should’ve been there, Should’ve burst through the door, You said you’d be here… What do you say, When tears are streaming down your face. In front of everyone you know?”

We’re pretty sure that Taylor has moved on from her broken heart and hey – at least she got a hugely successful album out of it!

Do you think the rumors about Taylor and Jake are true?